Do you often daydream about having an Open Letter to the Bride posted in your storefront window?
A form letter of sorts, to share expectations, protocol, tips and advice.
Here’s one such letter, written for Bridal Salon Owners everywhere.
Dear Bride to Be,
We’re so excited to meet you!
This is such an amazing time in your life, and we understand all the worries, concerns, and insecurities that come with shopping for the dress.
Be ready to gush, cry, oooh and aaah over all the fabric choices, veils + accessories.
We do have one initial request of you + your bridal party.
Ditch the bad attitudes at the door.
Come with a smile on your face.
OK, two initial requests really.
This is not a Cinderella and Stepsister scenario. We’re not your maid, or cocktail waitress.
This is our livelihood, so please respect our staff, and the array of dresses to choose from.
We realize that you’re stressed, under the gun time-wise, may have some pressure in terms of price, and have other things to get ready for your big day.
Remember too, not every bride finds ‘ THE DRESS ’ on their first day of shopping.
So relax, enjoy the choices, and above all….. be kind.
Feel free to bring your closest friends, mom + confidantes.
But be advised, friends that will say YES to all of your whims, or those that are hypercritical, are not a wise choice. You need support, gently mixed with a shot of reality.
We have many other clients that will visit our bridal shop this season, and we treat each and every guest with the same level of respect, attention to detail and compassion.
We can only control our own attitudes, our inventory, and our staff.
Here’s a short list of items that we can’t control:
- Your weight. We understand that you want to look perfect on your day, but we can’t get a size 20 into a sample dress. It’s just not going to happen.
- Your appearance. Want to have fun, and feel pretty? Then put your best foot forward. Dress up, do your hair + make-up. Bring shoes if you have them, or something with a similar heel height.
- Bad undies. Wear some great fitting undergarments. The closer you can get to the real fit, the happier and more confident you’ll feel.
- Dress type fixation. Try not to dwell on a specific dress or designer before you start trying any on. You’ll be amazed, and extremely surprised to see what actually looks good on your body type.
- Friends with ulterior motives. Bring those that are TRULY excited, and want the appointment to be all about you. Not someone who’s searching for their own dress, for the ‘ What If ’ wedding.
Above all, don’t forget your manners and self-respect on the day of the appointment.
We look forward to helping you find the dress of your dreams.
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